Weekend Reading | Nov. 14


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Below is a collection of various blog posts meant to encourage, inspire or educate. Grab a steaming mug of hot liquid this weekend and steal away to a quiet corner for some quick reads.

Children Who Experience Early Childhood Trauma Do Not ‘Just Get Over It’

If a baby is repeatedly scared and emotionally overwhelmed and they do not get their survival brain soothed, so they can cope, they begin to develop a brain and bodily system which is on hyper alert and the World seems to be a scary place. Sadly, this not something they can ‘just grow out of’. Far from it as what neuroscience is showing us from all the recent findings. An early experience has a profound effect on the way in which a child’s brain forms and operates as the survival brain is on over drive and senses threat everywhere so works too hard, too often, for too long.

10-20-10 Builds Relationships With Your Children

Here’s how it works: Parents make special opportunities to be with their child following my 10-20-10 method. Simply put, this means to spend 10 minutes in the morning, 20 minutes in the afternoon, and 10 minutes in the evening with your child. These are special opportunities to be with your child:  just listen without judging, blaming, or shaming. Validate whatever your child is saying and feeling.

Watch What Really Happens When Toddlers See You Angry

“We were surprised by the sophistication of these little babies. In a sense they were learning from ‘eavesdropping’ on other people’s interactions,” Meltzoff said in the email. “The results of this study make me look at babies in new ways.”

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