Weekend Reading | Oct. 10

freedigitalphotos-reading

Image courtesy of KROMKRATHOG / FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Below is a collection of various blog posts meant to encourage, inspire or educate. Grab a steaming mug of hot liquid this weekend and steal away to a quiet corner for some quick reads.

Use Neuroscience to Remain Calm Under Pressure

Neuroscience, however, has recently revealed that remaining calm under pressure is not an inborn trait, but a skill that anybody can learn.

How Do Emotional Traumas Pass from Parent to Child?

Dr. Debiec, of the University of Michigan, and Dr. Regina Marie Sullivan, Ph.D., of  New York University, confirm in a paper published online in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences today, that emotional trauma and fear are indeed transmitted across generations, even when the response is pathological, as in PTSD or with various phobias. The team has gained new insight into how this fear learning develops in the brain and can have long-lasting impact.

Mars

The good news is that to be part of a much-needed support network for families like ours, you need to know a few things. Kids like mine are ridiculously good at manipulation, and they love control. And, I don’t blame them. Those are the tools that kept them alive through their early lives. However, they will say and do anything to appear victims and gain control of the situation. They have high levels of defiance. So, they will likely be very convincing when they charm the pants off of new teachers, therapists, friend’s parents, and neighbors. They’re like tiny politicians. And, after they’ve charmed the pants off these people they will carefully and skillfully convince them that their parent is a monster. They do this with husbands and wives often. Husband is charmed, kid only acts out when husband is not around, husband thinks wife is insane. RAD kids cause a large number of divorces. Hopefully, I don’t have to explain why this is disconcerting. I have friends whose RAD kids have convinced court advocates, psychiatrists, grandparents, teachers, etc. that their parent is an abusive monster to the point that human services is called and sometimes arrests are made. Thankfully, someone who has a clue usually intervenes, but not always.

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...

Comments
  1. cadamy | Reply
We want this to be a safe place for everyone but particularly foster and adoptive families. Please remember to comment with connection. We reserve the right to moderate all comments.

Join the conversation

%d bloggers like this: