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Below is a collection of various blog posts meant to encourage, inspire or educate. Grab a steaming mug of hot liquid this weekend and steal away to a quiet corner for some quick reads. Happy Weekend!
One of the most common requests I get from parents is, “I’ve tried everything and my child still won’t listen. What can I do?” There are several factors involved in a child’s willingness to cooperate. A child not doing what she is told is less about “not listening” and more about how able she feels to do what you want her to. Before getting frustrated, try asking yourself the following?
If we would stop shining the light IN their face, and BECOME the light, shining on the narrow path to to lead them out of the darkness and into the marvelous light, they may be able to open their eyes and follow us. They may even hold our little flashlight hand along the way.
They may need to take baby steps, allowing their eyes to adjust slowly, or they may run, to a new reality of love, compassion, acceptance and relationship. But it is up to us to adjust for THEM, not them for US.
We’ve been in one of those phases lately where the kids are indoors more because of winter- more mess inside, the baby needs me at just the time when the rest of the family needs a meal, and we’ve been having our fair share of winter colds to pass around.